Come to my house, no need for a hostess gift

I hearken back to the simple times of my youth as part of a large extended family in a rural community. Those were the days. Back then, at that time, when we visited our friends or relatives there was no such thing as a hostess gift. How I miss those simple visits with no obligation to bring a “little something.” Pot luck sure, there were plenty of those. But hostess gifts, no. Thank God.

I love that we went to visit people knowing that they wanted to see us and to share what they had with us with open hearts. We were enough.

When people came to our house we shared all that we had with open hearts. Their company was all we wanted. They were enough.

When I read this piece “5 Rules for Hosting a Crappy Dinner Party (and Seeing Your Friends More Often)”Β  on thekitchn.com I thought, “Yes! That’s what I’m talking about!”

Here are the rules to follow for a pre-arranged Crappy Dinner Party

  1. No housework is to be done prior to a guest’s arrival.
  2. The menu must be simple and not involve a special grocery shop.
  3. You must wear whatever you happen to have on.
  4. No hostess gifts allowed.
  5. You must act like you’re surprised when your friend and her family just happen to show up at your door (optional).

Come to our house. We’ll share all we have with open hearts. No need for a hostess gift.


http://www.thekitchn.com/5-rules-for-hosting-a-crappy-dinner-party-235815?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=tracking&utm_campaign=article-share

 

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About Arlene Somerton Smith

Writer, laughing thinker, miner of inspirational insights, sports fan, and community volunteer

Posted on November 15, 2016, in Arlene Smith, Arlene Somerton Smith, Gratitude, Inspiration, Living life to the fullest and tagged , . Bookmark the permalink. 7 Comments.

  1. Crappy dinner style is my style!

  2. I completely agree with you Arlene. I loved it when it was okay to drop in on friends at any time of day, simply because you wanted to visit with them.

  3. That’s my kind of party.

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