The shortcut to happiness: volunteering
Posted by Arlene Somerton Smith
I value volunteering so much, I made it part of my personal “slogan”: Laughing thinker, miner of inspirational insights, storyteller, and community volunteer.
Why? Because selfless giving slingshots a person smack dab into the centre of happiness. Go directly to happiness. Do not pass Go. Do not collect $200.
Paradoxically, I give selflessly for selfish reasons. I want to be happy, therefore I give.
Not everyone gets the connection. Last year I chatted to an acquaintance about my work as treasurer of the Canadian Authors Association in the National Capital Region. “You volunteer?” she said, as though I had coughed up a lung and handed it to the organization.
“Yes,” I said, perplexed by her vehement reaction. “That’s only one thing I do. I volunteer a lot of my time. It’s very satisfying.”
At that moment, another friend passed by. She turned and said to him, “Did you know that Arlene volunteers.” There went my other lung.
He reacted like I thought he should: confused about why she should be so surprised. “O-o-o-k-a-a-y. That’s . . . good.”
I walked away shaking my head.
She doesn’t know what she’s missing. (And she’s often grumpy, I might add. Selfless giving would do her some good.)
In our household, over the years, we have volunteered at: play groups, day care centres, Boy Scouts, Girl Guides, hockey leagues, Little League baseball, the tennis club, community resource centres, L’Arche, SchoolBOX, Habitat for Humanity, the Jerry Lewis telethon, schools (elementary, middle and high), church, the Canadian Authors Association, Ski Patrol, World Vision . . . oh, I know I’m missing some. Last fall, my husband received the Queen’s Jubilee Medal in recognition of his career achievements and his commitment to amateur sport. Our household would fit into the category of what the Canada Survey of Giving, Volunteering and Participating (CSGVP) calls “über volunteers”.
We are a very happy household.
My friend volunteers for the Canadian Red Cross. He helped out after Hurricane Katrina. He went to Haiti for a month after the earthquake. He spent several weeks on the Jersey shore after last year’s hurricane. His mantra: “I get back so much more than I give.”
Amen to that.
About Arlene Somerton SmithWriter, laughing thinker, miner of inspirational insights, sports fan, and community volunteer
Posted on April 26, 2013, in good faith, How do you define success?, Inspiration, Living life to the fullest and tagged Canadian Authors Association, Canadian Red Cross, Ghandi, Habitat for Humanity, how to be happy, National Volunteer Week, Philanthropy, selfless giving, volunteer. Bookmark the permalink. 4 Comments.